COMMON PROBLEMS
People come to Relate for help with all sorts
of relationship problems. Counselling offers no
magic solutions. It can only work if you are
willing to be honest about yourself and your
relationship and if you commit to the
counselling process. Given this, it is very
likely that we can significantly help you. Our
counsellors are trained and have the experience
to work with the following range of statements
and questions that they regularly hear:
we don’t talk any more
it’s all over
I feel numb - my feelings have
gone
we cannot come to terms with the
violence in our relationship
my partner doesn’t listen
I cannot cope with the affair that
my partner’s recently had
are we right for each other?
can I trust my partner again?
what has happened to our sex
life?
we don’t have anything in
common any more
should we separate?
how can I be so lonely when I am in
a relationship?
my partner doesn’t want sex any
more
we seem to have physical problems
in performing sex
we argue all the time
my partner seems to want to control
everything I do
I am single - can you help me to be
more successful with future
relationships?
can you help us to separate on
better terms?
SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP OR SERVICE THE
CAR?
For the cost of an average number of
counselling sessions you could:
have a weekend away
service your car
decorate a bedroom
buy a DVD recorder
purchase a new outfit
Or
You could:
save your relationship
reduce the conflict in your
separation
help your children
save a fortune by not
separating
learn more about yourself
learn more about your partner
At the end of counselling over 90% of clients
felt they understood their problem better and
felt more able to deal with it.
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